Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Happy? But..I have cancer!

    Are you happy?
         



Before you jump to an answer for this age-old question..let me ask something else first:

Are you angry?
Are you sad?
Are you fearful..confused?

Ok, so that last one, maybe you are confused by now? That's Ok..I'll try to fix that, lol :)

Let's start with a definition for happiness:

(According to Merriam-Webster)


Definition of happiness

1obsolete :good fortune :prosperity
  • all happiness bechance to thee
  •  —William Shakespeare

2a :a state of well-being and contentment :joy
b :a pleasurable or satisfying experience 
  • I wish you every happiness in life.


So according to this definition, happiness is a state of  well-being.
contentment, and a pleasurable or satisfying experience.

What this says to me is:

a. It is temporary. Since you will not always find yourself in a state of well-being, nor can one possibly always have pleasurable or satisfying experiences..then happiness is not a static or unchanging state of being..just as angry, sad, fearful..etc..are not permanent states of being..Thank God!

b. Happy cannot be used to define you, or your life..happiness is better defined as a moment, or moments of our life experiences...and not what we are.

c. Happiness is subject to experiences, emotions, a feeling of well-being, and as such it cannot drive the human experience in order to negate any experiences or emotions or other temporary states of being. In other words, it is driven by these things and cannot change the fact that we will indeed suffer periods of fear, anger, discomfort, or other circumstances that would cause us to be anything but happy! It is driven..does not always drive us.

So, what does the Bible have to say about happiness?
Actually, the words for happiness may be: JOY, CHEERFUL, CONTENT, 
*For the sake of this essay, and as far as the above definition is concerned, the word JOY is the best way to describe true Christian happiness, as you shall see below.

Here are only a few of many examples from scripture:

Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing praise.
 James 5:13
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds
James 1:2

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
 Gal. 5:22-23

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice.
Phil. 4:4

Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.
Ps. 30:12

As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.
John 15:9-11
There are many who say, “Who will show us some good? Lift up the light of your face upon us, O Lord!” You have put more joy in my heart than they have when their grain and wine abound.
Ps. 4:6-7
You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.
Ps. 16:11
But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
1Tim. 6:6-11
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.
Phil.4:11-13

True Christian happiness, or joy!

Ok, so after reading these scriptures, do you see a certain pattern emerging?
Unlike the first definition of happiness, specifically in relation to its dependance on a certain experience or state of well-being, or pleasure..The joy in these scriptures, contentment and even cheerfulness..is NOT dependant on any outward circumstance..This state of being is in a static (non-changing) attitude of happiness and is dependant solely on our relationship, our trust, our rejoicing in THE LORD!
It defies our circumstances!



Blessings & Love,
And always remember,
We are..
~Never Forsaken~

8 comments:

Brenda said...

Hi Lisa,
as I was reading your post Jeremiah ch. 15 vs.16 came into my mind:-
'Your words were found, and I ate them, and your words became to me a joy and the delight of my heart, for I am called by your name, O LORD, God of hosts'

Whatever words the Lord speaks to us are always a joy eh?
God bless.

Sandi said...

Wise words. Thank you!

~Neverforsaken~Lisa Dreamchild said...

Brenda, I just read that whole chapter..It makes me want to be careful with my own words more than ever..God is asking Jeremiah to repent and use no more empty words..and to stand firm with his convictions and not to stand with evil doers..even if that means he must stand alone.
It's strange, but since this cancer diagnosis I have been asked to do and/or tolerate things that I know are very worldly, but widely accepted by society and the medical field..some of which I know is nothing less than spiritual adultery against our Lord! (think new-age for example)..I know I must resist, but feel too vulnerable at this time to say anything against these practices..I read this passage and now know that God will bless me if I stand firm.

Sandi,
You are very welcome! I just thought so much about how people when asked are afraid to be honest about how they really are..and that there is no shame in the fact that we cannot always be or feel happy all the time..but the joy in our heart is from God and the enemy cannot have that!

Crown of Beauty said...

Indeed, so true. Joy be yours in this season of your life. Much love.

~Neverforsaken~Lisa Dreamchild said...

Thanks, Lidia..You also!

Brenda said...
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Brenda said...

That is right Lisa,
I stand together with you in endeavouring to trust in His Word as I am also going through an on going trial. Father I ask you to help all who are going through these trials to believe Your Word to us as we seek Your promise of healing, which is 'Yes' in Jesus. Father, we ask You to increase our faith in You and help us in any areas of unbelief. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen and thank You Father.

Aritha said...

So clear. Thank you!

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